Contribution from a Reader, Let's hear it

When my wife first suggested - no insisted - I thought it would never work. Howevever, it is amazing the difference it has made. She said that the pressure of me of getting together was making her too tense. So, she said that we could have 2 specific nights a week. I said 3 - she agreed (although she is still arguing the point, claiming she never agreed to 3.) Anyhow, since we both know which night(s) we're going to be together, the pressure is off her and I wake up with a big smile on my face (well, 3 times a week.)That's suggestion one - good advice from the wife.But you're probably not going to like this one...Nobody talks/writes about vibrators. Even though this medium is totally anonymous, nobody mentions it. So, I am going to. There are very discreet (discrete?) ways to obtain them. It makes the times together phenomenal and amzingly good for the wife. Everyone wins. If only there was a website that could discuss/explain this in a responsible manner - a clean place where frum people could go to find out more.A woman goes through so much pain in life - not just the physical pain of childbirth, but also managing the home. The least she can expect is exquisite pleasure - and plenty of it.